Leading with Empathy

A positive work climate starts at the top with leaders investing time in people and showing that they care. A core skill is empathy, which Inc.com columnist Justin Bariso describes as, “understanding others’ thoughts and feelings to help you connect with them. . . . to see things through their eyes.” How are you doing when it comes to applying empathy, curiosity and listening skills in your life and work?

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Douglass Teschner
Are You a Prisoner to Your Cell Phone?

Constantly checking your phone can be a distraction, reactively diminishing minutes (adding up to hours) that could be applied proactively to important tasks. I recommend, too, that businesses clarify expectations on reading and answering work emails during off-hours. People need a break from work to recharge their batteries, avoid burnout, and maintain high levels of productivity! This necessitates a paradigm shift

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Douglass Teschner
Can We Overcome Polarization that Threatens Our Country?

I wrote previously that courage to change is a fundamental aspect of growing as a person and leader. Lately, I have been thinking about social change, especially as it applies to our dysfunctional politics. Our country is suffering from declines in social capital, civic education, manners/kindness, and basic conversation/interpersonal skills that are feeding this problem. Are you willing to contribute to finding a way past this difficult challenge? Read more in my recent column in NH Business Review.

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Douglass Teschner
Problem Solving for Leaders

A key leadership competency is effectively solving problems and teaching problem solving skills to others. This includes recognizing problems as they occur, understanding when to intervene, analysis and solutions development, training skills, and a willingness to step in when required. Of course, we all want to avoid having problems whenever possible. It is thus important to adopt a “Five P Philosophy”. . .

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Douglass Teschner
Are You Engaged in Your Work?

According to the 2021 Gallup workplace survey, only 34% of American workers are engaged in their work, and 16% are actively disengaged. That leaves 50% of American workers in the "not engaged" category – putting in time, but not the energy or passion to maximize success. This is hardly what you want for your business or organization! You can read more on this topic in my recent column in New Hampshire Business Review: https://read.nhbr.com/nh-business-review/2022/02/25/#?article=3939334

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Douglass Teschner
Finding the Courage to Change

Embracing the courage to change is a fundamental aspect of growing as a person and as a leader. Of course, personal change is easier said than done. We are all creatures of habit, and changing habits takes time and commitment. Growing as people requires us to look for positive opportunities to change. These are some areas that many of us can work on. . .

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Douglass Teschner
Managing Up – An Important Workplace Skill

An important work skill that is not sufficiently emphasized is “managing up.” It is important to get to know your boss as a person, building a relationship and trust. Consider your supervisor’s perspectives, try to walk in their shoes, and anticipate their needs. Get to understand the boss’s work style, what kind of communications, info, etc. he/she likes, trying to adapt your style to meet the boss’s preferences. Try, too, to make the boss look good to their boss.

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Douglass Teschner
Working Smarter Not Longer

Are you effectively managing your time to ensure that you are working smarter rather than longer? Are you ensuring that you have enough time for the most important activities? Stephen Covey reminds us to “put first things first” in his classic “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.” The urgent/important matrix he describes is a useful way to approach this challenge. You can read more in my full column here.

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Douglass Teschner
Whatever Happened to Kindness? – How Leaders Can Make a Difference!

Unfortunately, examples of bad behavior are increasingly on display, and workplaces are not immune. The manager of Bowl-O-Rama in Portsmouth, NH felt a need to speak out on Facebook, decrying “rude, belligerent, and frankly abusive behavior” by customers. News reports recount physical threats against school board members, hospitals installing panic buttons due to growing patient assaults, and airline employees getting self-defense training. What is a business leader to do? Here are a few suggestions:

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Douglass Teschner